Online dating dictionary
In short, defensive dating refers to playing games instead of doing what experts always tell us we should do in relationships: Be honest and discuss problems upfront.
Which means we defensively date all the time.: "Why is it so hard for a guy to dtr like you're either interested or you're not." (We've all been there, girl.) This isn't an abbreviation you'll hear often IRL, but it sums up a problem that plagues many.
The gift of Tinder has come with an unfortunate goody bag of Tinder creeps, individuals — usually men — who use their online connections with women as an opportunity to troll, berate, objectify, harass and lash out at their targets in a unsolicited, inappropriate manner.
While men behaving this way isn't new, apps like Tinder and Ok Cupid have given them unprecedented access to creep on women.
On the other hand, the nature of texting and messaging has given women the opportunity to call out these creeps in awesome ways, as , which posts screenshots of spurned men who go from zero to nasty when rejected over text.
With words, we struggle between "I like you" and "I love you" and the lamer but equally valid "I care about you" and more. Women come to me all the time for relationship advice, as I have been married three times (well, technically four -- I don't count the annulment) and dated hundreds of men.I try to explain that this is not a badge of honor; if you want relationship advice, go to someone who married her college boyfriend and is still married to him 30 years later.Plus, it never doesn't make us laugh when used in Before Tinder, swiping was something you did to clean your windshields.Thanks to the compulsive dating app, "swiping right" is now synonymous with expressing romantic interest, while all others are dismissed with a "swipe left." Some people swipe right Humans have been lusting for the attention and affections of the opposite sex for years, but this year that lust got a name: "thirst." Shortly thereafter, we got "thirst follow," when you follow someone on Twitter, Instagram or another social media site simply because of their looks.