Dating and college life
“Your biggest problem is that you love being in love.” This is what my mom recently said to me while we were talking about my recent break-up.
After a failed attempt of trying to defend myself through five minutes of stuttering, I walked out of her office frustrated and silent.
Overdressed for the nonoccasion, I quelled my frustration with Trader Joe's maple clusters and reruns of The next morning, I texted Nate again — this time to acknowledge our failed plan: "Bummer about last night. The avoidance — and occasional tight-lipped smiles — continued through the fall semester. He was drunk and apologized for hurting my feelings that night in the fall. The culture of campus dating is broken..at least broken-ish. College kids do it, have always done it, and will always do it, whether they're in relationships or not.
And I think it's because we are a generation frightened of letting ourselves be emotionally vulnerable, addicted to communicating by text, and as a result, neglecting to treat each other with respect. Hookup Culture is as a cause of our broken social scene. Casual sex is not the evil root of all our problems..
Guys, either step up your game or stop making relationships and love all about sex because it is not all about that.
So here I am laying in my bed, listening to "Only You" by Yaz (yes, the song is older than I am) thinking about love and dating. I am like a deer in the headlights when it comes to figuring out how guys think and operate.
I think ideally, in some perfect world, yes, I would love to be in a serious, committed relationship by the end of my time at Purdue (LOL chances of that happening though are looking slim). Sometimes life happens, and if the love of my life isn’t at Purdue then he is somewhere out there!
I mean isn’t that one of the biggest stereotypes of college anyway? There you have it, ladies, maybe guys don’t think all that much different from us.
We account for 57 percent of college enrollment in the U. and earn 60 percent of bachelor's degrees, according to the National Center for Education Statistics, and this gender gap will continue to increase through 2020, the center predicts.
But I'm still not comfortable with Rosin's assertion that "feminist progress...depends on the existence of hookup culture."The career-focused and hyper-confident types of women upon whom Rosin focuses her argument reappeared in Kate Taylor's July 2013 feature "She Can Play That Game Too." In Taylor's story, female students at Penn speak proudly about the "cost-benefit" analyses and "low-investment costs" of hooking up as compared to being in committed relationships.